For days and weeks I was distracted from work, life, and family. I had sleepless nights because all I thought about was, what did I do wrong.
What did I do that you felt so comfortable pushing me away?
What did I say that you thought it was fine to walk away without saying a word?
Where did I go wrong, that you did not feel any guilt ignoring me and going about your life like I was no one important to you?
I felt horrible about myself. I felt worthless and unimportant. I felt incapable of being loved.
You made me doubt myself, my abilities, and my choices in life.
You made me doubt my character and my way of living.
However, after all that, I want to say thank you.
Thank you for breaking me, and teaching me how to put myself back together alone.
Thank you for making me feel bad about myself because now I am a much more confident soul.
Thank you for walking away, because when you left I found myself, and I learned my true worth.
When I thought there was something wrong with me, I eventually began to think clearer, see clearer and realize, there was nothing ever wrong with me, but everything wrong with you.
I was so blinded by your charisma that I never noticed you had zero personality. You spoke to people like they were beneath you just to make yourself feel better because you knew you had no character.
You build your muscles to cover up your weak soul.
You never have proper conversations with people because you don’t know how to keep an interesting conversation going.
You lack knowledge, you lack life, you lack love.
That is why I thank you, because of your weakness and insecurity, I found my light and strength.